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Writing Distractions

April 23, 2011 3 Comments

This morning, I had no idea what to write about, so I decided to read other writing blogs to get inspired.  After reading THIS blog, finally I was motivated to write.

One of the main reasons why your article or book takes forever to write, is mainly because you’re allowing the internet to distract you, everything from celebrity gossip, news, blogging websites, games, and even email — it’s all a huge distraction.

You think to yourself, “Just write,” but it isn’t always that simple, though I really wish it could be.  I wish I could tell you what I do to help me not be distracted from the internet, but I can’t, because every single day is different, some days I’m focused and some days, I’m not.

Here is some advice, that no matter what distracting mood I’m in, this works:

SET A DEADLINE:  When I was writing my first book, this was a big motivator.  There were days, and sometime weeks, that I wouldn’t write, but knowing the fact that I had a deadline looming over me, was thrilling in a way.  I did change the deadline for the book to be finished, but I moved it up, which made me focus even more.

WRITE EVERY SINGLE DAY:  Whether it be a page or a certain amount of words, it’s best to write — anything.  Now, I’m not talking about making it a perfect scene, but at least you’ve written something, and that’s better than nothing.  Also, writing notes, or working on your plot and storyline does count.

HAVE A WRITING BUDDY:  Having a writing friend is such an amazing thing!  It’s funny, because my writing pal is my husband’s best friend, who was also the Best Man in our wedding, and sometimes when we’re together we talk about writing, and my husband doesn’t understand out language.  I love how he and I can discuss our different types and styles of writing with one another.  We are honest when critiquing each other’s work, which I am very thankful for.  We’ve had only one meeting and thanks to his brilliant suggestion, he played a major part in me finishing my book.  (Thank you, Wade).  Also, taking writing classes are a great way to meet new friends.  When I was taking online classes at Gotham Writers’ Workshop, I met a lot of great people, who I’m still friends with today.  (One of them will be my first Guest Author on my blog, which I will share next week!  Thank you, Elke!).

TREAT WRITING LIKE A JOB:  By treating your writing like a job, you’re more likely to take it more seriously.  For example: Would you rather work on your novel, or would you rather watch reruns of “Friends?”  Would your boss allow you to watch TV on the clock?  Probably not.  Also, find someone who can check on your daily/weekly/monthly progress.  (I had my husband check my status at least two to three times a week, which was also a huge motivator).

If you are having trouble knowing how to get started with your writing goals, here are a few websites that I thought were helpful.

How To, #1

How To, #2

How To, #3

In the end, when you’ve written the words THE END, know that it was all worth it, to stay focused and not get distracted by the INTERNET!

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Tarot For Writers…Wait, What?

April 22, 2011 7 Comments

Yesterday, I went to B&N to get a few children’s books for a friend of mine.  I stumbled upon the writing section of the store, which I found to be in an odd place (right next to the kid’s books), but didn’t think too much of it, because I was at another B&N than I’m accustomed to.

I began looking through the reference writing books, and came up on this, the Tarot for Writers book.  Now, I’ve never been one who really believes in the “Tarot” world, but am intrigued by it.  This book by Corrine Kenner, is filled with creative ways to write, whether it be fiction or non-fiction.  The book describes how to use your Tarot cards (which are sold separately, and I haven’t bought yet), guide you through your book, with setting up your characters, helping you with a plot, coming up with a point of view, settings and descriptions.  HERE is the book’s website.

I’m not sold completely on this book, but when I do buy my Tarot cards, I think that it will come to good use, especially when Mr. Writer’s Block greets me.

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I Want To Get Away

April 20, 2011 2 Comments

I have written a similar blog about this, but now that I’m writing my second book and am even more confidant in my writing, I’m really wanting to get away!  (HERE is the other blog).

I’ve always just wanted to go on vacation but not just any vacation, a writing vacation.  It would be thrilling to know that I could be away from home for a straight 7 days, writing and working, on my own schedule, without any interruptions.  Seven full days focusing 100% on my work would give me the time and the motivation I need to get a serious amount of pages written.

Whether your vacation be beach, country or hotel themed, imagine how accomplished you would feel.  Wouldn’t  it give you that sense of motivation to make your writing dream a reality?

Across the world, there are thousands of retreats especially for this, to encourage and help you along your journey.  I don’t know if I’ll ever go to one, but this year, I am going to go on a vacation, alone, and just write…wish me luck!

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The Romance Writer and The Royals…

April 18, 2011 6 Comments

Any little girl, at some point in their life, wanted to, or still wants to be Cinderella.  Haven’t we imagined the guy we’re dating, (at least once) being our real Prince Charming?  Don’t we all want a Fairy Godmother to come and stir up magic, and turn our toads into a Prince?  The answer is simple, yes!

Before Diana became one of the most famous women in the world, she was a schoolteacher, just an everyday woman.  Diana, Princess of Wales gave women hope that just because they weren’t born into being a member of The Royal Family and marrying someone down the line, that true love was possible.  Princess Diana is iconic and one of the most famous one who was once a part of the British family.  Though her marriage to Prince Charles ended, thanks to the okay from the Queen of England, she still gives women the hope that your Prince is really out there, even if you are a what people call just a “normal” person.

Prince William, the son first son of Prince Charles and Princess Diana, will be marrying Kate Middleton on Friday, April 29th, of this year.  These two seem to be the modern-day Royal couple.  They have been friends, a couple, friends again, and now they are engaged, which is the talk of every news broadcast I turn to.  What is she going to be wearing?  Who is invited?  How many dressed Kate will change into?  All of this is somehow news, but the thing that so many are forgetting, is that these two really seem to be in love, and that’s one thing I haven’t forgotten.  I wish them a lifetime of love and happiness, and hope that the “Royal Curse” had ended…

Today I came across THIS article about how The Royal Family has sparked the imagination of romance writers.  I have read several books, mainly by Philippa Gregory, who wrote about the King Henry VIII days, and I’ve learned a lot.  Yes, it was mostly fiction, but can’t we all say that some of fiction can be true?  Hundreds of years from now, we might be able to say that Prince William was King William with Princess Kate.  Romance readers will be able to pick up the books we’re writing now, our Hero and Heroine who are mainly based on the soon to be bride and groom.

I ask you, what King/Prince and Princess/Queen/Everyday woman would you base your romance on?

In closing, I hope you find your  Prince, and your glass slipper…

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Don’t Give Up – The Writing Journey

April 13, 2011 12 Comments

Yesterday I was watching Katie Couric on “The Early Show” who was promoting her new book, “The Best Advice I Ever Got.” When she began talking about best-selling author Kathryn Stockett, I was amazed to learn how many times she was rejected before she had brilliant first book “The Help” published.

When I heard the number, it made me admire the talented writer even more.  I love how dedicated she was to her goals — and her dreams!  Above all, I love how she powered through her rejections, which I believe had made her stronger.  She has inspired me so much, and now I know that however many rejections I get, I will be published!

I wanted to share three links to Kathryn Stockett with you, as I hope to inspire you and your writing!

Article #1

Article #2

Article #3

Now, I hope you are ready to go after your dreams and write, write, write!  Good luck with your writing journey.

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Friday Review

April 8, 2011 2 Comments

After subscribing to several blogs, I’ve been noticing a trend of reviewing books.  Since I love to read and write, I thought why not start reviewing the books that I want to read.  Beginning next Friday, I will begin posting Chick Lit book reviews on MY WEBSITE, under the “Book Reviews” tab.

Who will be checking in to see what I’m reading?  🙂

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Writing Prompts

April 7, 2011 6 Comments

Writing prompts — they are something I have a love/hate relationship with.  Almost every single day, writing prompts are all over the internet, whether it be in a blog form, a brainstorming website, or even through an Email.  Wait, through an Email? Yes!  While I was scrolling through my Facebook account, I saw this and thought it was brilliant!  HERE is the brilliant article about writing prompts from an Email.

Happy Writing!

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Chick-Lit: From A Man’s POV

April 4, 2011 2 Comments

Earlier this afternoon, my brother called and asked me if I wanted or needed anything at Barnes & Noble.  At first I told him no, but then decided to make it a challenge, testing what a man thinks is Chick Lit, so I then told him to bring me a Chick-Lit.  He mumbled something about Romance books and about “smut” books.  After we hung up with him, I was a little worried about what he might come back with, but had complete confidence in him.

When he did over, he brought me a Chick-Lit!  My husband asked him if he had anyone help him, and he said no.  He then told us that he picked the book because of “the colors, the font, the specific words in that particular order.”  I think he did a very well job about picking up the sub-genre of Romance, and do find it very interesting how he explained, especially by the “colors” and “font.”  He was very observant, noticing that Chick-Lit’s are usually very colorful, to attract (mostly) female readers.  As for the font, he made another observation by commenting on the font.  Squiggly lines and curly fonts (usually) attract women, compared to the upright text of “men’s books” by John Grisham, for example.  Overall, I am very proud of my little brother, who isn’t as much of a book lover as I am, that he could identify the genre that his sister will hopefully be a member of.

The book my wonderful brother picked for me is “The Overnight Socialite,” by Bridie Clark.  I look forward to reading this book and having it be the third book that I plan to review, which is a new feature on my blog, under the Book Review tab.

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The Pains After Writing A Book…

March 21, 2011 4 Comments

So, as many of you already know, I finished my book twelve days ago (YAY), but I have yet to fully enjoy or believe that I have achieved such a thing.  When I wrote the words “THE END,” I remember thinking “Is it really over?” There weren’t loud cheers, I didn’t dance around the living room and there weren’t even tears…I was exhausted.  That night, I went to bed feeling complete, I was happy and I slept pretty well, only because my characters now had their own lives to live.  However, the next morning was a complete different story.  I woke up with a crick in my neck and my back and neck were so sore, that I could barely move.  “My book is horrible!  Everything has to be changed,” I told my husband as he got ready for work, and I sat there panicking!  He simply hugged me and said, that I’m probably right, but you’ve done it, and have achieved your goal.  I hugged him back with a slight chuckle, knowing he was right, and shortly after that, he left.  That whole day, I wanted and tried my best to be really proud of myself, to maybe have that really big cry, out of completely joy, and to feel complete.  It didn’t happen that day, or the day after.  My neck was still sore on Friday and my husband surprised me with my sister who had come in town, and the next night, a surprise party was thrown for my 30th!  Several people at the party knew I had finished the book and kept asking me about it, but what could I tell them?  I really couldn’t say anything about how excited I was, because I hadn’t experienced any type of emotion.

And still, to this day, I still don’t know what it’s like to have that glorifying moment.  My neck and back are still aching, and I’m literally exhausted!  It is my first day to get back to any kind of writing since I finished my book, and I’m thankful for allowing myself to take that time off, but I feel like I’m waiting for Mr. Writer’s Block to leave. (Is that a sign to start editing Book #1 and start Book #2?)

Here is an article that I found about the emotional sides after finishing a book.

In the end, I am very happy that I have completed something so wonderful.  I mean, how many people can say, “I have written a book!”

 

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