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Three Reasons Why Watching Soap Operas Has Helped My Writing

May 8, 2014 2 Comments

For as long as I can remember, I’ve been a huge fan of soap operas. My four favorites were The Young & the Restless (I love Victor and Nikki) and The Bold & the Beautiful (I’ll always think that Ridge and Brooke belong together), along with two others that are no longer on the air, As the World Turns (one word, CarJack), and The Guiding Light (Reva and Josh…soulmates).

Just recently, I found my first short story, which was taken off from a scene from The Bold & the Beautiful. It was about a scene that I’d seen that day (thanks for leaving the TV on, Mom). At that time (all those years ago—we won’t say how many), I was obsessed with the names Brooke and Ridge, so I didn’t change them. While the story wasn’t too bad, it could’ve been so much better if I’d used the following three tips, which I’ve learned from watching soaps:

1: Readers want hot/fantasy guys, but make them real: Ladies, admit it—we all have book boyfriends, right? I know I do! Most of the men in soaps are tall, dark and handsome, have chiseled jaws, and a body you could only fantasize about touching. The truth is that men like that really don’t exist…at least in the “real world.”

As an author, I want my heroes to be the best they can be, which means that what I really want is for them to be the perfect man—like the one who plays on in the soaps. The only problem with this is that I want my readers to be able to relate to the characters in my books, yet still be able to fantasize about them, too.

There are two tricks to this; the first is to make him a nerdy-type who’s really good in bed and has a delightfully charming personality (like James Bond, for example), and the second is to make him a handsome man, but with a quirk or a birthmark (for example, if he’s eating a meal, he eats the foods in alphabetical order, or he has a mole between his eyes…something along those lines).

2: More drama/conflict, the better: Another thing to admit is that we watch soap operas for the storylines (for some reason we’re drawn to know who slept with who, which sister is pregnant with your favorite heroine’s husband’s baby, and who killed Alan Spaulding), so as a writer, adding drama to your storyline is very important. It makes for a page-turner, where most often your reader will be staying up until late into the night reading your book.

One of my most favorite things about being an author is creating drama/conflict for my characters. Whatever the drama/conflict is, be sure that it’s something that can’t be fixed in a few sentences or pages—make your characters fight to solve it, and make your readers curious as to how it ends up.

The trick to this one is to be creative, and think outside the box. If you’re at a loss for ideas for storylines, observe people around you, watch TV (even something you thought you’d never be caught watching), or put yourself in the situations you’d want to be in, and go with it.

3: Watch actions and expressions: One of my biggest issues is writing actions or expressions. As of recently, I’ve learned to watch how soap opera characters closely (this involves everything from gestures, hand placement, nervous habits, etc.). This will help you will draw the reader in, and make them feel emotions about what’s going on with the storyline.

To do this, I encourage you to watch soaps, but one you don’t normally watch—only because you’ll be too busy watching the storyline unfold. But if you can’t do that, put your TV on mute and just watch. If you can you determine what your character is thinking or feeling, then you’re on the right track. Now, go write!

Filed Under: Isabella Tagged With: As The World Turns, Blog Hops, Books, Chick-Lit, Entertainment, Guest Post, Isabella Louise Anderson, The Bold & the Beautiful, The Guiding Light, The Young & the Restless, Three Reasons Why Watching Soap Operas Has Helped My Writing, TV, Women's Fiction

My Thoughts on The Bachelor: Season 17

March 12, 2013 1 Comment

Insert a guy who has a body that was made for TV who claims to be searching his wife, a lot of dramatic women and the rose that always lingers, and you’ve got season seventeen of The Bachelor.

I’ve never really been that girlie kind of woman who watches shows like The Bachelor or The Bachelorette.  Okay, yes, I did watch the one with Trista and Ryan (who are still together, by the way), but the show wasn’t believable back then, nor do I feel it is now.  Could it all be a fantasy?  Yes, quite possibly.  We only get to see what the cameras show us, which makes for better drama, quite a bit of viewer judgements (both good and bad), and of course, the feeling of being let on by The Bachelor or The Bachelorette.

When I was young, I wanted the fairytale, and I still do, but in order to have that and what the show doesn’t show is that couples have to work 100%/100% each day on their relationship.  If there were one thing about these shows is to show the couples working on their relationship instead of gallivanting around the country like two teens on spring break.  I’m not saying to take all the lovey-dovey stuff out, but make it more of a reality, hence isn’t that supposed to be “reality TV?”

And so, last night.  Oh, boy…

**SPOILERS AHEAD**

When Emily dumped Sean, I felt sorry for him.  While I liked Arie and Jeff who Emily picked in the end (but supposedly they’re not together anymore), it was obvious to me that he took the process very seriously and why not?  Okay, I was hooked, so I began watching Sean’s season, hoping that he’d find the love of his life.

After the first episode, Tierra was my favorite pick.  She certainly did have a “sparkle” about her.  When Sean gave her the first rose before knowing her for five minutes, I thought that she might be the one, however, that changed shortly afterward.  Falling down stairs (some think on purpose), jumping in freezing water and expecting Sean to dote after you and cause drama amongst the other women in the house, just didn’t work for her.  I’m glad that Sean finally saw through her and sent her home.  I guess it’s a good thing because in the episode of “The Women Tell All,” she’s engaged now to a guy who she claimed “they needed time away from each other.”  Hmm…

And then there’s Des, the wedding planner.  I loved her from the beginning.  She’s cute, fun and she looked like she belonged with Sean…but unfortunately, he sent her home.  I’d still love to know the reason, but I’m guessing that it has something to do with her brother.  I know I’d be upset with him for how he treated Sean.  Though there is good news, people — Des is the new Bachelorette, which begins this May!  Who’s going to be watching?  I know I will be!

Lindsay Yenter was the favorite between the final two.  She seemed the more genuine woman and more the Sean-type.  They didn’t seem fake and I liked her morals.  While she came out of the limo in a wedding dress and got drunk the first night, she quickly redeemed herself, but unfortunately not well enough to win Sean’s heart.  As I was watching the episode last night I was amazed at how classy and mature she acted when Sean told her that he wasn’t picking her.  I would have said the same thing…well, okay, I might have been a little more boisterous.  I also thought it was cool how she stopped and took off her shoes as she made her way back to the car walking away from Sean.  You go girl!  I like Lindsay Yenter and wish her the best of luck in life and in love!

And then there’s Catherine Giudici, the winner.  I never saw what he liked so much about her.  She seemed very immature and she brings Sean down with him.  She stayed under the radar for most of the show, but maybe that was what Sean wanted, a normal girl without a lot of drama…but I don’t see it that way.  Did Sean pick her because she didn’t want to leave him the night before the proposal?  I think so.  He seems like such a caretaker and wants to give, so I’m thinking that he let Lindsay go because he knew she can handle being without him.  She’s a survivor and Catherine’s not.  Hmm, just a thought…

I’d love to hear what y’all think of this!

Happy Monday, folks!

Filed Under: Isabella Tagged With: Catherine Giudici, Entertainment, Lindsay Yenter, Love, Reality TV, Romance, Sean Lowe, The Bachelor, The Bachelorette, TV

It’s Fun Friday

April 13, 2012 1 Comment

Please don’t let the picture below make you want to click off this blog post.  I’m going to share just a few reasons why I like-no, why I love-this Kardashian-Odom woman!

Khloe Kardashian-Odom

I am by no means obsessed with reality-TV, but one day when I was sick, I got hooked on the Kardashian family.  Kim was my favorite, followed by Kourtney, and then Khloe.  That changed when I learned more about their highly dramatic family.  I won’t go into that, but rather I’d rather talk about why I admire and respect the youngest Kardashian, now turned Kardashian-Odom.  Of all the people in the “K” family, some even turned “Jenner,” she’s the one who isn’t in it for the drama, nor her looks.

Khloe: I love her!  I love for the woman she’s become.  She’s overcome hard times, (her father died of cancer, she went to jail for a DUI, she’s gained a lot and lost a lot of weight, and since she’s a celebrity, she’s criticized for each and every move she makes).  I’d like to think that she and I are a lot a like, and here’s why.  We both love our families, are outspoken women, love our husbands to pieces, and think that “friendship” is the root of a marriage.

The Khloe Kardashian-Odom/Jenner Family

Khloe on Family: Khloe has more love and respect for her family than any other celebrity that I know.  Her mom, Kris Jenner, can criticize her for her weight and call her “fat,” but Khloe says it’s all out of love.  Since Kris is her manager (and manager of her other daughters, and son Robert), Khloe respects mother’s judgment and harsh words.  While Khloe might seem “blunt,” and “direct,” as some people call her, she’s the only one who told Kim that her marriage to Kris Humphries would be a bad idea…and she was right.  (HERE is my blog about Kim’s marriage).

Mr. & Mrs. Lamar Odom

Khloe on Marriage: Khloe’s marriage to basketball player, Lamar Odom, came as a surprise.  The had known each other for nine, yes nine, days before they became engaged in 2009, and they are still going strong.  On some blogs and websites, it’s been said that they are one of the strongest celebrity couples.  I agree.  When Lamar got traded to the Dallas Mavericks, I thought it was cool that she made the move with him.  She even Tweeted, “I ride or die for my Lam! It’s where I go… It’s who I am with :),” and then, “I can survive anywhere…As long as I’m with Lam I’m good”  I love her ways of thinking about marriage.  If you watch her spinoff show, Khloe and Lamar, you will see how much these two love one another.  Just because they got married very soon after meeting one another, that doesn’t mean anything.  Oh, and they also made an Unbreakable scent together, (I have it, and LOVE it!)  One more thing, Khloe makes it a big deal about how much Lamar dotes on her, and makes her feel beautiful – no matter that, and that’s one think I love about them-that they show how much they love each other.  Khloe and Lamar, I wish you a very happy life together.

(Her) Weight: Khloe has always been judged about how she looks, but mostly about her weight.  Just recently, she’s been on several talk shows where every interviewer has asked about her weight.  I think it’s inspiring that she finds “curves sexy,” and that she’s comfortable in her own skin.  That’s hot!  I found THIS to be an amazing view of how she thinks about her weight, and about weight in general.

Anyway, when I woke up on Monday and found out that she’d be moving back to L.A. because Lamar and the Dallas Mavs have parted ways, I was sad.  She and Lamar had once lived at the hotel where I got married, The Rosewood Crescent Hotel, and she’d filmed her spinoff show in part of Dallas where I live.

In closing, Khloe has taught me that not every celebrity is alike, and that she’s her own person, no matter what!  I’ll always cheer for her and Lamar, as I wish them love and luck wherever they are!

Filed Under: Fun Friday, Isabella Tagged With: Books, Chick-Lit, Crescent Hotel, Dallas, Dallas Mavericks, Friday, Images, Isabella, Jenner, Khloe, Khloe Kardashian, Khloe Kardashian Odom, Kris Jenner, Lamar, Lamar Odom, Link, Random, TV, Writing

It’s A Sexy Wednesday

April 11, 2012 4 Comments

Athletes, cowboys, and James Bond all have something in common.  They are sexy, and I love them all (especially in my daydreams…wait, make that fantasies).  Put a suit on a man-any man-and his look can change 100%!

Men in suits are my weakness.  To be more specific, it’s a man who’s wearing black  and/or grey dress pants, a white dress shirt unbuttoned (it must be unbuttoned), and a black and/or grey dress coat.  This is my “ideal man.”  (It’s funny, because as I write this, I’m watching Person of Interest, and the main guy, Mr. Reese, is dressed as my “ideal man”).

Here are my Top 5 guys who are dressed to perfection:

George Clooney
Bradley Cooper
Pierce Brosnan
Jim Caviezel
Gerard Butler

Have a sexy Wednesday!

Filed Under: Isabella Tagged With: Books, Bradley Cooper, Chick-Lit, Fantasies, George Clooney, Gerard Butler, Images, Isabella, Jim Caviezel, Link, Men in suits, Pierce Brosnan, Random, Sex, Sexy Wednesday, TV, Wednesday, Writing

Adding A Little “Hump” To Your Wednesday, Part II

April 4, 2012 6 Comments

Last August I wrote THIS post.  By far, it’s been the highest blog views each day.  It’s something I didn’t expect.  Anyway, I wanted to add a second part, but this time being sexy in a different way.

My first thought was to show pictures of all hot men, but decided against it.  Instead, I’m going to show you some of my favorite movie couples.  Read THIS for a preview of a few.  While these aren’t always “sexy” couples, they share something that could be even more sexy – the passion these couples have for one another.

"Love Story"
"The Mirror Has Two Faces"
"P.S. I Love You"
"When Harry Met Sally"
"Pillow Talk"
"The Notebook"
"Cat On A Hot Tin Roof"
"Up"

What movie couples do you find sexy?

Filed Under: Isabella Tagged With: Barbra Streisand, Billy Crystal, Books, Cat On A Hot Tin Roof, Chick-Lit, Doris Day, Elizabeth Taylor, Gerard Butler, Harry Connick, Hilary Swank, Images, Isabella, Jeff Bridges, Jr., Link, Love, Love Story, Meg Ryan, Movies, P.S. I Love You, Paul Newman, Pillow Talk, Rachel McAdams, Random, Rock Hudson, Romance, Romantic Comedies, Ryan Gosling, Sex, Sexy, The Mirror Has Two Faces, The Notebook, TV, Up, When Harry Met Sally, Writing

It’s Fun Friday

January 20, 2012 5 Comments

Betty White

Betty White turned 90 on Tuesday, so in honor of this iconic woman, I thought I’d pay a tribute to her.

I started going through pictures of her to show you how she’s aged, but the thing is with her, she hasn’t by looks, only by years.  She’s looks like the same woman I know and I love when I “met” her from watching “The Golden Girls” many years ago when she played he lovable (yet sometimes cuckoo) Rose Nylund.  She was my favorite character on that show because she was funny (everyone around me laughed), and somewhat a ditz, which is how I felt growing up — and sometimes still do.  (Note: A few months ago my husband and I were flipping through the channels and we saw an episode being played — well, I finally saw how dirty this show was, and why everyone was laughing and blushing).

Betty was an only child, and from a very young age, she was a pet lover.  During the course of her long life, she never had any children with any of her three husbands.  I remember her one time saying on a talk show that she considers her pets as her children.  Animals have been such a huge part of Betty’s life that she’s played a huge part in charities and supports animal rights.

Funny lady Betty was the oldest host of the highly populated show, Saturday Night Live, in May of 2010.  It was the first time I’ve watched SNL in years, and I thought she did an amazing job!  She played the parts perfectly, and was so funny!  If I were in the audience, I would’ve definitely given her a standing ovation!  Speaking of funny, don’t you all love that Snickers commercial of her?  She was definitely a team player!  I believe that this was a Super Bowl commercial — and I’d have to say it was one of the best!

We could talk about other highly acclaimed female comedians, but Betty tops them all.  She is a classic woman, and I’m proud that I can say that I have lived to see this lovely, brilliant, and talented woman in my lifetime.  She’s also the grandmother that we all wish we had, am I right?

Now, in no particular order, I’d like to share with you my top five Betty White quotes:

“You don’t luck into integrity.  You work at it.”

“I’ve always liked older men.  They’re just more attractive to me.  Of course, at my age there aren’t many left!  I’ve enjoyed the opposite sex a lot.  Always have.  Always will.”

“The secret to our marriage was enthusiasm. When I knew Allen was coming home, I would freshen my makeup and put on a new blouse. I don’t have a fella, but if Allen — or Robert Redford — were around, we’d have a very active sex life.”

“Friendship takes time and energy if it’s going to work. You can luck into something great, but it doesn’t last if you don’t give it proper appreciation. Friendship can be so comfortable, but nurture it-don’t take it for granted.”

“In your 20’s you dress to impress men.  In your 40’s your dress for business.  In your 80’s your dress for the bathroom.”

I love you, Betty!

Filed Under: Fun Friday Tagged With: 90th Birthday, Betty White, Chick-Lit, Comedy, Entertainment, Friday, Fun Friday, Funny, Images, Isabella, Link, Movies, Quotes, Random, Television, TV, Writing

The Bachelor (DRAMA) Girls vs. The Chick Lit (DRAMA-LESS) Girls

January 11, 2012 Leave a Comment

If you’ve ever watched The Bachelor or The Bachelorette, you know there’s drama-and lots of it!  If you’ve ever read a Chick Lit, you know that the main character is (usually) strong, independent, and confidant.

Yes, I got sucked into watching “The Bachelor” this time around because of Ben Flajnik.  It all started when I began watching The Bachelorette only to see what practically every woman I know was talking about.  Sadly, I was hooked on watching Ashley Herbert date these guys, and sadly break Ben’s heart by accepting J.P. Rosenbaum’s proposal.  I say this because I’m not a girly girl.  I rarely get along with other women, and I highly dislike drama — of any kind.  On The Bachelorette there was some drama (remember Bentley?), but now that I’m watching The Bachelor I don’t think that I’ve ever seen, or heard, so much D.R.A.M.A. (the tears, the high strong emotions, the cat-fights…and more).  It’s obvious that these girls have a confidence issue(S) — yes, with a capitol “S!”  This just might be the last season of The Bachelor and The Bachelorette, but for Ben’s sake I’m going to hang in there.

While the female main characters in Chick Lit books have struggles, they aren’t dramatic (though some have friends with a drama-filled life).  Of course these women have daily struggles, but again, they aren’t dramatic.  The characters might cry, throw things, or feel hurt, but aren’t they just experiencing the same feelings and/or thoughts that we as humans feel too?  They go get what they want, and that’s what’s so awesome about Chick Lit women, but they do it in a non-dramatic way!  (We rule!)

 

 

Filed Under: Isabella Tagged With: Books, Chick-Lit, Isabella, Random, The Bachelor, The Bachelorette, TV, Writing

It’s Fun Friday

October 7, 2011 1 Comment

Kim Kardashian

It’s Kim Kardashian’s wedding weekend — again!  No, her marriage to Kris Humphries hasn’t ended…yet.  For a four-hour and two-day event (Sunday and Monday night) on E!, the people who weren’t invited to their more than lavish and extravagant wedding get to see it!

While most people find her to be the most annoying and spoiled celebrity, I like her, but it wasn’t always this way.  Before I began to watch Keeping Up With The Kardashians, I made it a point to pass right by them (the whole Kardashian/Jenner clan), not even giving them a second thought.  I was more interested in celebs like Jennifer Aniston and Steve Carell.  One day last year I was sick in bed and wanted to watch something that I didn’t care about.  Perfect!  I couldn’t stop watching the drama that this family created and I was in luck because I stumbled upon an all-day marathon.

Kourtney, Khloe & Kim

It’s sad, I know, but I do keep up with the Kardashians.  The show is my favorite guilty pleasure and I’m not afraid to admit it.  (If you haven’t watched it and like reality TV, I guarantee you’ll like it).

Kim & Kris

Anyway, back to Kim and Kris…

This weekend she’s guaranteed to be making a lot of money and why shouldn’t she?  After all, her wedding to Kris is the United States’ Royal Wedding, that’s at least what I heard.  I understand the point of making money by promoting herself, but I think her wedding should be something that she shouldn’t be making money on.  It seems like just another show that she’s on, which kind of makes me think that celebs really do get engaged/married/divorced to promote something; I find this very sad.

In conclusion, I do wish Kim and Kris a lifetime of love and happiness.

Filed Under: Fun Friday, Isabella Tagged With: Celebs, Chick-Lit, Friday, Gossip, Images, Isabella, Kim Kardashian, Link, Reality TV, TV, Wedding

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